Effort and Perseverance

“The comfort zone is a psychological state in which one feels familiar, safe, at ease, and secure. If you always do what is easy and choose the path of least resistance, you never step outside your comfort zone. Great things don’t come from comfort zones.” — Roy T. Bennett

There once was a time when I was terrified of crowded subway trains. I was afraid that I would find myself away from the door, and I wouldn’t be able to make my way through the crowd. Indeed, it was stupid to be afraid of, but if you think about it, the most subtle way life can test you if you really want something is by putting obstacles in your way.

Having to push people out of your way can be one of the most challenging things to do. It has more to do with fear than with kindness. It is more about self-indulgence than it is about altruism.

To a certain degree, we are all self-centered, but at the same time, we are also afraid of others. We don’t want to be invisible, yet we don’t want to be punished for being “too visible” either. In essence, we want to be comfortable. However, we learn early on that other people have the power to disturb that comfort.

Ever since I became a writer, I’ve met a lot of other writers. Some of them are far better at their craft than I could ever hope to become at mine.